Fighting and divorcing are common in our modern society, too common as a matter of fact.  We always hear a lot of hear-says that whenever a couple broke-up or at least fight, the usual reason is money. On which areas of the relationship does these money conflicts occur? It’s important that we can pinpoint those for us to be able to know the solution.

Your Big Picture Goals
Each couple tend to have conflicts with how they spend money. Before they became together, there were actually two different people having different goals in life. Example, a guy whose happy go lucky and has no plans for his life will definitely spend and spend for the rest of his life. He’ll definitely be in conflict with a woman whose plans are already set like putting up a savings account for an early retirement.
In order to address this conflict, the couple must discuss and agree about their plans, by setting up a big goal. Having that big goal, a couple can work on that at the same time, avoiding tensions about money matters.

Your Day-to-Day Money Management
Managing a couple’s day-to-day cash flow is one of the areas that is critical when it comes to couple money management. Most of the time, there’s someone assigned to do the budgeting. And this person tends to dominate, telling the other person how money should be managed, usually the person’s way of doing it. So what’s wrong with it is when the other person is not used to that kind of way. Blaming and criticisms usually happen.
The same solution applies: discuss the problem but in a calm way. Know each other’s money management ways and try to meet half way. Also, don’t take money a lot seriously. Have fun. Don’t put every single cent to your savings. Have something for yourselves, a budget for weekend spas maybe.

Your Roles
It’s not really bad that someone’s more financially controlling. But it should not happen in the sense that the other one is totally ignorant even on the very least details such as where money is kept. Ideally, the two must be equally informed. But of course it won’t happen. Because no matter what we do, there will always be someone who’s more expert in managing the household finances. Just make sure that in whatever financial transaction someone’s getting into, the other one knows it and is approved of it.

This basic and funny picture summarize everything about the divorcing process.  It is a childish game for people who get marry and split up and blaming it on a mid-life crisis.
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